Chapter Three: Is Masturbation Sin?

I haven't posting "Is Masturbation Sin?" since last week Monday. Because of I was so busy. Now I can post that new chapter. :)

Do you wonder if masturbation is seriously wrong in the eyes of God? Practice masturbation has caused the youths to become a mental illness. However, in 20th century, the medical researchers are no longer claim that condition. Because of there is no evidence if masturbation effects the people to become a mental illness. But what do you think of masturbation? Is it sin in the eyes of God?

Why Not Practice Masturbation?

Masturbation is carefully considering as self-stimulation sexual excitement. While you are young, you become a sensuality. The powerful hormones are released that affect the reproductive organs. You are aware that these can make you feel excited about sex.

Sometimes you feel frustrate with no sex, so you decide to masturbate. That can affect a boy's sensitive nervous system. Doing masturbating may cause him to awake with sexual arousal. Or it may done during the night usually dream about erotica. Some girls may find themselves stimulated without a plan. Many have a strong desire of sex before or after their menstrual period.

Nothing wrong with having experience such masturbation. This is a normal practice for young people. Such feelings, if more, are not the same as masturbation, since it cannot be controlled. As you get older, the more of new sensations will control. Still, these new sensations must be controlled by the youths. Because of the youths are learning how to let go of desiring to have sex.

I, Loi, am missing kissing someone a boyfriend,

and that is hard for me. But I'm coping to live without

a boyfriend since he left me in late of 2004. I can wait

for the right man to come and I enjoy being single. 

Mentality

At school, the more youth seen or heard on sexuality become passion. Read what the scripture Proverbs 7:7-22 says.

You have seen on TV programs that includes immorality is the root of your problem with practicing masturbation. Yea, you can't stop watching or reading the romance novels. Because of they can lead you to addict on masturbation or desire to have sex.

Don't Worry About Making Love 

Your masturbation habit can reveal so hard to break. Masturbation is a habit to which people turn for unpleasant whenever they are rejected by one who are not interesting in making love. Such situation is hard and can be upset, depressed, lonely or stressed. Don't worry about one who is not interesting in making love with you. You can continue your practice of masturbation. However, if you have a relationship with God, are you masturbating?

Does the Bible Mention Masturbation?

The Bible does not mention masturbation. Masturbation was common in the Greek-speaking world during Bible times.

But since masturbation is not condemned in the Bible. This does not mean harmless. Still, masturbation is surely an unclean habit. (Ephesians 4:19) You need to keep cleaning yourself from that unclean habit and move on which benefit you.

Exciting About Sex

Colossians 3:5 says, Mortify therefore your members which are upon the earth; fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry:
Sex is passion, therefore it is out of control. Read what Paul said in Romans 1:26, 27.

If you look at woman or man to lust, then read what Jesus said in Matthew 5:28. You could easily fall into immorality. This happened to one youth who admitted to feel that masturbation could relieve frustration without his getting involved with a girl. Yet he grew more power to desire doing so. He committed fornication. No surprise. One study revealed that the youths who masturbated were also committing fornication. 50 percent of those who were a virgin!

Defile the Mental and Emotion

Masturbation also makes the bad attitudes that can lead to corrupt the mental. When masturbating, a person deeply involved in his or her own bodily sensations - totally self-centered. Sex becomes separated from love and is lowered...

But God had intended to that sexual desires to be satisfied in an expression of love between the marriage of a man and his wife.-Proverbs 5:15-19

Masturbation is taught to be the wrong attitudes that defile one's spirit, or rule the mentality. In some cases, the problems caused by masturbation last even after marriage! For good reason, 2 Corinthians 7:1 tells you to keep your flesh and spirit clean.

The View of Guilt Need to Be Balanced

Many youths can overcome this bad habit. Thankfully, God is very merciful. For thou, Lord, art good, and ready to forgive; and plenteous in mercy unto all them that call upon thee. (Psalm 86:5) When a Christian youth fail to resit masturbation, he condemn himself. But he earns pleas for forgiveness. A loving God intends to keep that youth from feeling too depressed when failing to resist that unclean habit.

How can you keep cleaning yourself from masturbation? The next chapter will teach you how you can stop masturbating. Loi